Opinion: Civility means fighting notion of immunity in communicating with others

In our interconnected world, every word and action we share holds immense power. Civility is more than just good manners; it is the active, conscious choice to treat others with respect and dignity, even in disagreement. It is the invisible thread that weaves a strong and trusting society, fostering the kind of open dialogue and mutual understanding essential for progress. 

When we commit to civility, we acknowledge our shared humanity and build a foundation where everyone feels heard, valued, and safe. This simple, powerful choice creates a positive ripple effect that strengthens our relationships and communities.

However, a dangerous illusion threatens this foundation: the belief in our own immunity. In an age where we can communicate from a distance, it’s easy to feel shielded from the real-world impact of our words and behaviors. The digital screen or the comfort of a like-minded group can lead us to believe we are immune to the hurt we cause and the damage we inflict. This feeling of impunity erodes our sense of responsibility and, in turn, breaks the bonds of trust. When we no longer believe our actions have consequences, our ability to connect genuinely with one another collapses, leaving us isolated and polarized.

To create the vibrant, compassionate society we all desire, we must discard this false sense of immunity. We are not exempt from the consequences of our choices; our words and actions shape the world around us. By embracing this truth, we can reconnect with the power of civility. 

Let’s make the deliberate choice to act with kindness, to listen with empathy, and to communicate with respect. In doing so, we not only restore trust and open communication but also ignite a positive movement that inspires others to do the same. The future of our shared spaces lies in our hands—and it begins with one simple, civil act at a time.