Opinion: Are you a good neighbor?

Commentary by Jeff Worrell

In a previous column, we explored the vital role of hospitality in fostering civility and the delightful art of porching. Many of you responded, emphasizing the equally important virtue of being neighborly.

Here in Carmel, we’ve always known that neighborliness extends beyond a simple friendly wave or cheerful greeting. It forms the very foundation of our civility and acts as the glue that binds our community together.

Neighborliness is about extending a helping hand to those in need, whether it’s lending a tool to a fellow gardener or offering to watch a neighbor’s pet while they’re away. It’s about showing genuine concern for each other’s well-being and taking the time to listen and understand.

Civility, at its core, is about respect and kindness. When we practice neighborliness, we foster an environment where everyone feels valued and respected. It’s about creating a space where differences are celebrated and common ground is found. It’s about setting an example for our children and teaching them the importance of empathy and compassion.

We pride ourselves on our strong sense of community. Whether it’s coming together for a local event, supporting our local businesses or simply being there for one another, we know that our neighborly actions ripple out, creating a more civil society.

The next time you are collecting mail at the mailbox and you spot a neighbor, take a few extra minutes to ask how things are going. You might be surprised how good being neighborly can make you feel.