Opinion: A lasting resolution

Commentary by Jeff Worrell 

As we stand at the threshold of 2025, Carmel residents have an opportunity to build upon their commitment to civility by including it in their New Year’s resolutions. It is by focusing on and drawing attention to civility in our community that we will make it easier and more natural to choose civil behavior when facing conflict.

Could a resolution this year include a desire to practice active listening, seek to understand before being understood, show more compassion and empathy or ask for more feedback from those you disagree with? Could we resolve to vocalize gratitude, celebrate random acts of kindness both big and small, appreciate those who serve us yet might let us down, help a senior citizen or seek to make a friend from a stranger? Could we promise in 2025 to engage with our community in a new way by attending a community event, scheduling a coffee with a local leader, volunteer to help a neighbor or a group or temper the rant on social media?

Making your civility resolution a success requires consistent, intentional effort. Each small action — from a smile exchanged on the Monon Trail to thoughtful participation in an HOA meeting can help transform Carmel from a city known for its roundabouts to one equally celebrated for its culture of civility and gratitude.

True civility and genuine gratitude grow stronger with practice. By including civility in your resolutions, both as individuals and as a city, we can create a ripple effect of positive change that will enhance our community for years to come.