Opinion: The most precious gift of all

Commentary by Jeff Worrell

As the holiday lights twinkle along the Monon Trail and the Christkindlmarkt brings its magical atmosphere to our city center, Carmel residents have a unique opportunity to give a gift that costs nothing yet enriches everyone — the gift of civility.

In this season of giving, while we browse local shops for perfect presents and plan festive gatherings, consider that the most meaningful gift we can offer our community is the conscious choice to embrace and extend civility in every interaction. This gift, unlike material presents, multiplies when shared and grows stronger with each passing day.

Choose to express appreciation freely. Spread warm smiles, offer to help before asked, share kind words and compliments. Listen more than speak. Demonstrate patience and express thank you, thank you, thank you.

The beauty of gifting civility lies in its ripple effect. When we choose civility at the Christkindlmarkt, it spreads through the crowd. When we practice it at holiday gatherings it enhances everyone’s experience. When we demonstrate it in our neighborhoods, it strengthens our community bonds.

This holiday season, as we celebrate in our beautiful city, let’s wrap our interactions in civility, tie them with ribbons of respect, and top them with bows of kindness. In doing so, we give Carmel the most precious gift of all — a stronger, more connected community that carries the spirit of the season throughout the year.

Remember, every civil interaction is a gift that keeps giving, creating a more welcoming, respectful and joyous community for all who call Carmel home.